Making Hard Decisions

If you aren’t on facebook (and why aren’t you?) then you may be a little confused by my goodbye post.  This is Chikezie.  Our puppy dog.  He’s been with us nearly 2 years.  You can read his Welcome Home Doggie post if you missed it the first time.  He was such a good dog.  Really good.  So obedient.  Never snaps at the kids.  Never, in two years, potty-ed in the house.  Ran with the kids, chased the deer and big dogs off.

But animals need money.  And, though we could budget enough to keep him, when we get down to the last few dollars at each payday – we’ll always choose the childrens’ interests.  Without hesitation.  And there are always children’s interests. 

(Pause here, I want no “this is how you could’ve afforded to keep him” I can’t take anymore, frankly.  We made the decision.  Now, I just want hugs or nothing at all.)

My mom called her groomer who just yesterday had a very nice woman asking for a little house dog.  She already had one little doggie and 2 children.  That’s the kind of home he needs – kids and other doggies.  He thrives on chaos.  By the time my mom got here, she said her groomer was actually debating keeping him for herself (she has a 3rd grader and a doggie daycare).  I lean toward the groomer, because the kids could go see him when we’re in town.  (Though, I think maybe that would hurt worse in the long run?)

I’ve cried for 2 days over this.  My kids are constantly asking how we can keep him, if the quarter they’re offering up would be enough, that TheOldest has been saving his money since September, if he’s happy in his new home, if we can go see him, if his new owners are bloggers or on facebook, if Santa will bring us a new puppy next Christmas.  It did not help when my elderly well-meaning next door neighbor offered to take him on the spot yesterday for his updates and to do it twice yearly for us forever.  In front of the kids.  Because it’s hard to explain to desperate eight year olds the concept of owe no man nothing.

I know we made the right decision (I think).  I know we did the responsible thing.  I just don’t want the kids to be scarred for life.  I don’t want to see them hurt.  I don’t want them to worry about money - because we’re just fine.  I don’t want it to be about me and my decisions.  I don’t want to severely regret this decision down the road – because great dogs don’t just come along everyday – not the kind that fit into our family so perfectly. 

I just miss that dog.

Wordless Wednesday: “Bye Chikezie”

Boy Blogger Steals My Thunder

Oh, my y’all.  What have I created?  TheOldest has a blog called CrazyKid, as some of you know.  (You have to be an approved member, I’m protective like that).  It started out very controlled.  I sat right with him and I did most of it.  Now, he does the whole shibang.  Picks the pics, chooses the title, publishes the whole thing without my ever knowing it until he calls me over to look.  And tonight it was too good!  I’m so proud of this boy! 

So, if you’re a member (or if I know you and you’re not a member – let me know) click over there and see what he’s done.  Leave him a comment – he LOVES your comments!

I Need Some *Pretty* Right Now

How about you?

Children’s Book Tuesday ~ Home Learning Year By Year

Okay, my posting of these has gotten sketchy. 

But I couldn’t pass up this week.  Now, granted, it’s not exactly a children’s book in that it’s for children, so much as it’s a book for parents of children.  That still counts, right?  I never was so good at following rules.  Even my own.

Home Learning Year by Year: How to Design a Homeschool Curriculum from Preschool Through High School
Written by Rebecca Rupp

 


 

 

(I have to say, if you order this book through my site right here, I get a cut from it.  So, click away and we all win!)

I forgot about this book, y’all.  Matt surprised me with this a year or two ago (a book I would have never bought for myself) and I love to go back through it periodically.

I have not read it all the way through.  I use it strictly for a reference book.  Adding another chapter each year as my children grow.  And I always go back through the previous chapters to see if I’m on track.

I had let a friend borrow it, completely forgetting about it, and when I got it back it was like a sweet present all over again!  

While reading the preschool chapter I was blessed again by these words and a sweet friend came to mind as I was reading them.  I wanted to share them with her, but then more and more of you came to mind as I thought of the encouragement that would come from them.  So for your encouragement today:

“What to do with your preschoolers?  Cuddle them.  Talk to them.  Answer their questions.  Play games.  Read picture books.  Let them help bake bread, sort socks, and plant the garden.  Make play dough.  Sing silly songs.  Feed the birds.  Scribble with crayons and sidewalk chalks.  Experiment with finger paint.  And just watch:  Amazingly, as they grow from infants to toddlers, from age two to three to four, they will acquire an ever-expanding vocabulary and amass an astonishing fund of knowledge.  In comfortable everyday fashion, they’ll learn to count to ten, absorb the names of shapes and colors, memorize nursery rhymes, the words to ‘Twinkle, Twinkle, Little Star,’ and the alphabet, and figure out how to pedal a tricycle, turn a somersault, and – at least in our experience – to disassemble the toilet, crib, and clock radio, operate the telephone answering machine, coffee grinder, and computer, write their names (both backward and forward) on the wallpaper, and drop the entire contents of the silverware drawer down the radiator.

Kids grow up fast.  Cherish these early years while you’ve got them.  Henry David Thoreau could have been speaking to the parents of small children when he touted the beauties of daily living and the importance of taking time to pay heed to the marvels taking place about you.  ‘It is a great art,’ Thoureau once wrote, ‘to saunter.’  Such is my advice for the preschool curriculum: Saunter.  Hold hands and giggle while you’re doing it, and bring some bread along to feed the ducks.”

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