where i relapsed into a first-time mom

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 don’t get offended it’s just a simple truth (most of the time, anyway) that first-time mom’s are a little more “over the top” shall we say, when it comes to over-analyzing their newborn’s every move than a mom who has 4 children.

 but i did it. 

i actually googled “6 month old not rolling over” 

yes, i really did.

even though i know logically that he is capable of doing it.  i have seen him go from belly to back once or twice.  and my mama-sense wasn’t telling me anything was wrong.  and i have 3 others who have met all of their milestones at completely different times.  and he technically has about a week and a half left before he’s 6 months old.  but i thought back to my first child and pondered that he was crawling by about 7 months and walking by 10 months.  and after the pediatrician already moved the milestone to 6 months from 4 months since my last child was this age and he still wasn’t meeting it, i went looking for other mamas who had worried about their little ones.  and i found what i knew i would find.  what i would tell any first-time mama who asked me the same question.  “he’s fine.  be patient.  every child is different.  you can’t compare kids.  he’ll do it.” 

and today i found him in the playpen in a position i didn’t leave him in.  on his belly.

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  • bmartin1213

    Oh this made me laugh a little inside! (Shaun was asleep on the couch next to me so I couldn’t laugh out loud.) I do that all the time!!! (And yes, for those who read this and don’t know, I am a first time mom!) Although, I haven’t looked up near as much lately. 6 months ago, when I’d get my weekly babycenter.com emails telling me how my baby should be developing, etc, I would devour the email, making sure I knew everything about everything. Now I just skim over it and occasionally click on a link for more info. Oh, and I’m sooooo glad I didn’t know until now when your first crawled and walked because I would have worried myself senseless! LOL. Mine was a month later on both. Oh well, it’s good to know that the paranoia (sp?) gets better with more kids…hopefully, anyway!

  • http://momma-tude.blogspot.com/ K.T.

    Too cute!

    I dont think I really got a chance to do that because my first baby was special needs-my paranoia was founded.Although one of my best friends had her first baby 9 months ago and she has first time momma syndrome,but she is aware of it too.LOL

  • http://thejoyfulchaos.wordpress.com silly me

    k.t.- you didn’t miss out on anything. i promise!

    b- it gets better! the more babies you have the more relaxed you have to get. except on occasion! ;)

  • http://www.felio.org/blog/ David

    Ok, I’ve made a mental note that our baby should be rolling over at 6 months. Thanks for the heads-up. Any other potential warning signs I should be aware of? I’m an excellent worrier.

    What? That wasn’t the point of the post? Oh, sorry.

  • http://www.fruitinseason.blogspot.com Christine

    He is precious! And now when someone else googles “6 month old not rolling over” they’ll get your site. See how much you’re going to help another worrying mom?

    :)

  • bmartin1213

    Christine-what a good thought!

  • http://thejoyfulchaos.wordpress.com silly me

    i thought so too! it definitely changed my perspective on it!

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